i've been seeing a lot of swords and cups in my reading today, and i think it's a perfect (if very on-the-nose) representation of my current mental state - my emotions and fears at war with what my mind is telling me i must do. today's card is the seven of swords.
like the four of swords, this clever creature is completely aware of the swords over her head - but unlike the lamb, channeling her power and setting boundaries for herself, this fox keeps an extra sword hidden, waiting for something big to happen. perhaps she's aware of a threat in her midst, and doesn't trust those around her - or maybe she's the one with the secret, and is wary of being discovered. either way, she is on edge, keeping an eye on everything.
this card often reminds me of the seven of cups, another card that can speak of secrets, illusion, and deception - both speak to internal issues, whether they're mental or emotional. and having seen both suits so many times in recent readings, it seems fitting to mediate on them both.
last week i wrote a post about coming out, and struggled with whether or not to share it on social media. this blog is not private, and i rarely write secret posts, but it also doesn't get a lot of traffic - i write mainly for me, and while i occasionally send posts to friends, rarely share it beyond that. as i work through how to come out to some remaining family members, i've been wanting additional support from those that already know, along with those that don't but will be strong allies. but i've been putting it off, worried that no one would care, that it wouldn't mean anything. i'm out to almost everyone in my life - surely posting that on a site like facebook, where my connections are friends and real people i've met, shouldn't be that scary. right? if i can write things that are available to strangers on the internet, surely people that care about me are less intimidating?
but oh, the fear is palpable. just considering posting this publicly (along with writing this post, right now) feels self-indulgent, self-involved, self-serving. sharing a post about my sexuality, as brief and broad as it is, feels like a huge personal step for me. and perhaps it's the seven of swords speaking - this secret i have is impacting so many relationships, so many decisions, simply because i haven't shared it yet. but the seven of cups looms too - is my brain pushing my heart to do something it's not ready for? do i only think this is an important step, when it actually wouldn't matter to anyone? will i feel better when it's over, or simply obsess about likes and comments and fear nasty private messages?
i'm honestly not sure. but the phrase i keep seeing in blogs and forums about this card is act consciously. what's more important - feeling calm and at peace with myself, or getting attention and support from others? do i want to tell people for them, or for me?